You’re an adult and you’re grateful for the life you’re living but you feel like yours isn’t going anywhere. You’re watching everyone you know seem to be enjoying their life and getting promotions, getting into great relationships and engagements. Buying homes and having babies. Traveling on wonderful vacations and living the life YOU dream of. Yet you’re wondering why you're so exhausted all the time and that life feels like a daily struggle that isn’t going anywhere for you.
You have tried so many things to help you feel more positive and succeed in life yet you feel like you’re getting nowhere and that you’re just not good enough no matter how hard you try.
You often feel like people don’t really see the real you. And when you speak up for what you want - you seem to end up getting a bit angry as you feel like no one cares what you are saying or what you want.
You love your friends but you really wish they could see the real you and you don’t have to often feel so defensive around them to be heard. It’s hard to talk with your parents as they have their own issues (like most parents do) and you can either ignore your own feelings around them like you did when you were growing up or choose to ‘be real’ and potentially blow up in anger at them.
You watch everyone you know seem to be succeeding in their careers, personal lives and relationships - yet you’re still in the same job you’ve had for the past 4 years with little to show for it. Most days you just want to binge watch netflix to find a bit of excitement and joy in your life. Your romantic relationship is next to non-existent and you crave to be with someone who really sees you and values you. You want to enjoy your life to the fullest like everyone else is doing - yet you’re not. And it’s beginning to drive you crazy.
You wake up most days feeling like you are going nowhere and oscillate between frustration and regret. With fleeting feelings of optimism and hope that things will magically change for the better. Yet they rarely do. Your money seems to be flying out the window to things that are supposed to be helping you feel good and maintain your life. Yet instead it just seems to keep you from having a savings account. You feel trapped as you feel you need these things to help you keep moving forward. Yet most days it feels like there’s not enough cafe lattes and Kin Euphoric drinks in the world to help you get through the week. That big cushy promotion you’ve been dreaming of has yet to happen. And that million dollar idea to start your own business hasn’t arrived either. And you don’t know how long you can keep living like this.
You’re so sick and tired of dissecting and analyzing your childhood in therapy as it’s getting you nowhere except more angry, tired and upset. You realize there were issues in your family growing up. Who didn’t?! And you don’t want to repeat living them. Yet talking about them over and over isn’t helping get over anything. It’s only making it worse. And you’re tired of wasting your time on these things as you feel like you’re wasting your life. And you want to be thriving in life and enjoying it.
The online ‘clearing trauma’ workshop you signed up for felt like a waste of money. You bought an online ‘healing your inner child’ therapy book and it only made you feel worse about yourself. You have tried meditation classes for a fleeting glimpse of peace and tranquility that lasted until you opened your eyes again. And countless meditation apps that only seem to remove funds from your bank account each month. There is no amount of tapping on your face to get you to stop being upset at your boss for not realizing your value. Or your coworker that doesn’t work at all and receives all the promotions. And that Bali yoga retreat promising to ‘magnetize limitless abundance into your life’ was a very expensive excursion that limitlessly drained your bank account. And you felt you needed a vacation from your vacation once you got home.
You often wonder what needs to shift in your life so you’re not exhausted and stressed out all the time. Hoping that maybe then people can see the real you. And you can stop feeling like everything is such a struggle and that you don’t matter. And start really living and enjoying the life you have been dreaming of.
You don’t know what it’s going to take but you know you can’t keep going like this. You fear that you’re going to hit full burn out soon and lose everything. Lose your job, lose your friends, lose the life you have worked so hard to have and move back home with your parents who already don’t really respect you as an adult.
I get it. Life seems pretty hard right now with what feels like little hope of that shifting since it hasn’t in the past. But you don’t have to continue to experience such exhaustion and stress. You deserve to experience the life of your dreams.
Imagine waking up in the morning feeling rested and excited to experience your day. You feel so good just being YOU! You have so much energy and excitement and all these inspirational ideas keep coming to mind.
You can’t wait to sit in meditation first thing and visualize your exciting day and week ahead. It just feels SO good being in your own body with clear positive thoughts and meditation helps increase that wonderful feeling head to toe. And it really sets up your day for an extra great day.
You head to yoga class before work to really stretch and get in the zone. You leave there feeling even more incredible. You’re so happy you get to do this and live this life you’ve dreamed of!
You are excited to be at work - doing a job you love and are great at. You have a fun time talking with everyone you come across at work - feeling really grateful for this job. Even when you run across people that used to annoy you - you now really see their odd games they play and it doesn’t bother you any more. You just laugh to yourself about it. Time flies by yet you still have energy when you’re done. Even though you forgot to drink your daily cafe latte.
After work you grab a bottle of a new wine you recently discovered from your fav wine shop that you love. On the way to the wine shop you feel so content and grateful that you get to be you and have this life. Then someone adorable walks by you to check you out. You are feeling fantastic and so fulfilled!
You arrive at your friend's little home for a small, casual dinner gathering with that great wine everyone is excited to try. You feel so relaxed and happy around your friends. And grateful for your job and your life you have. And you’re so excited to see what unfolds next. No matter what unfolds you know that you are solid within yourself and can just let anything that you don’t care for - just roll right past you as you bring your attention to the things you do love and cherish.
Everyone is commenting on how wonderful you look and asking if you did something new? How calm and happy you are. It’s like you’re beaming with deep fulfillment. They all want that too! You realize as you sit around the dinner table that as you naturally care about yourself so deeply that as you respect yourself - all your friends are now respecting you as well. And that one friend that used to cause the most drama - you can see clearly now how much pain they are in and don’t like themselves. Trying to take their internal pain out on everyone else. And it no longer affects you at all. You just ignore it and pass along the contact information of what helped you shift. And you lovingly smile at everyone as you feel so great and free.
One of your friends also brought their handsome single cousin to join dinner and introduce everyone. He seems quite taken by you and asks if he can take you to lunch this week.
When you are back home flossing your teeth and getting ready for bed - you reflect on what a wonderful day you experienced. And how you love feeling so grounded, peaceful and fulfilled within yourself. You admire how neutral and non-reactive you are now. Things that make you angry and set you off no longer even register. And you marvel at how different you are now and can’t believe how you used to be. You feel so great you wouldn’t change this for all the money in the world. And are so grateful for this shift and can’t wait to experience what more life has to offer for you.
I know this works because it worked for me. And I personally experienced big results after just one session.
I had been searching for these tools since as far back as I can remember. I had tried most every modality possible for lasting shifts and change. Searching every nook and cranny into how I could experience this. I worked out most every day, ate the healthiest foods and supplements, used essential oils back when people didn’t even know what they were. Meditated for hours and hours on end. Did 3 hour holotropic breathwork workshops. Family Constellations. Therapists session, Psychotherapy, somatic work, body work. I Attended workshop after workshop on how to experience peace and transformation. Yet nothing worked until I experienced these tools I work with now. And love for others to experience.
This is my passion to help people easily dissolve the things that keep them stuck, angry, fearful, stressed, tired and reactive in life. Feeling like they are going nowhere and nothing seems to be helping them for very long if at all.
Past clients have expressed experiencing the shifts and transformations they were hoping for in as little as one or three sessions. Our goal with this work is to help clear the way your mind has been processing data so that it can function to your full potential. And you continue enjoying your life, now. Not needing coaching sessions for the rest of your life.
We are passionate about helping motivated individuals through private practice coaching - clear subconscious blocks for a lasting effect and sense of deep freedom from within. From the comfort of your home via zoom in an easy, safe and fun environment. Helping each individual experience lasting wholeness, peace, fulfillment, increased energy and loving their dream life to the fullest.